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Fatherhood

I wanted to make a quick post and see how far this can go. I support fathers…good fathers. I never had a relationship with my father. Even before he was murdered, when I was 8, it never really felt like we had a connection. I think that’s why I’ve been so interested in other people’s experiences with their dad.

Lately, I’ve been thinking about how fathers feel in today’s society. Mainly single fathers and stay-at-home dads. You know, the type of out of the box father. You hear about single moms and stay-at-home moms all the time but who really takes the time to think about the dads in these positions.

I was hoping to possibly get a whole bunch of single dads and SAH dads to let me interview them in a way. I want to tell their story. Mostly because I want to know it but I also think it should be shared. Men from all walks of life doing their daddy duties.

If you know of any fathers like this, send him my way. If you’re a single dad or SAH father, let’s talk! Obviously, I’m a mommy but a mommy that’s deeply interested in bringing awareness to the struggles men go through as fathers. I think it would be really cool to share my idea with you willing guys out there.

Hopefully I can get a couple daddies to interview. Fingers crossed!

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Building a strong Blog

I know my blog is like a small beach shack  on a deserted island compared to the mammoth size mansion blogs out there. Even so, I know exactly what makes a blog thrive. Obviously content is important but it doesn’t matter how great your content is if no one sees it. When I first started my blog, I wrote a post then flung my arms open like, “Come to me!” It was like an ant expecting a giraffe to see it’s footprints.

Like I said in an earlier post, building connections and interacting with others was the most vital part of having a successful blog. Granted, I learned this over a year ago and my blog following is still pretty small. That would be my fault. I haven’t been blogging and visiting my fellow bloggers as much as I should.

Unless you have a super big following, your blog is like a cave in the woods that people might stumble upon if they past your way. You have to crawl out of your hole in search of human life! That’s probably my favorite part about blogging. It feels good to have people see your post but when you are able to find someone else’s post or blog site and just feel a connection to what they are saying, it feels awesome.

You have to take the time to get out there and give others feedback instead of just hoping to get it for yourself alone. It’s a give an take. A mutual respect amongst writers. You took the time to read my post so I’ll do the same. This has been the best lesson I’ve learned since I began blogging. I personally believe in quality not quantity; if you have a few followers but they visit your page regularly it’s a win. It means that you’re not just a one hit wonder with them.

If you ask most bloggers, they’ll agree that blogging is more of a marathon rather than a sprint. It takes time to get it to where you’re fully satisfied. It also takes time to really come into your own and what better feeling is there than having your early followers come along on the journey. Equally, don’t be turned off by new comers. Share the love and support and even give them  some tips if you like.

How to build a strong blog? By building strong relationships, by sharing your time with your fellow bloggers, and giving valuable feedback on the post you read. It’s about spreading the interest you wish to receive. Blogging is not for the selfish. It’s a community…an extended family.

Like always guys ((HUGGS AND LOVE))